Coaching with Vickie
The Relationship That Changes All Your Relationships
Private, transformational coaching for women ready to call in their Soulmate—and reclaim themselves in the process
You’ve Done the Work. But Something’s Still Missing.
You’ve read the books. Been to therapy. Done the workshops. Journaled. Meditated. Healed layers upon layers.
And yet…
You’re still attracting unavailable partners. Still abandoning yourself in relationships. Still waiting for someone else to make you feel whole.
Here’s what I’ve discovered after 25+ years of guiding transformations:
The deepest healing doesn’t happen through information. It doesn’t happen through techniques or tools alone.
It happens through relationship.
Not just any relationship—but a bond so deep, so loving, so unconditionally accepting that it rewires your nervous system and shows you, at a cellular level, what healthy love actually feels like.
This is the foundation of my private coaching.
And it changes everything.
Your Transformation
From Self-Abandonment to Sovereignty
You came here to find your Soulmate.
And you will.
But what happens in our work together is far more profound than “finding a man.”
You will find yourself.
The woman who:
- Makes self-honoring choices without guilt or apology
- Knows her worth in her bones, not just her mind
- Shows up authentically in all her relationships
- Trusts herself completely
- Sets boundaries with grace and clarity
- Partners with the Divine in every area of her life
- Attracts healthy love because she embodies healthy love
This is sovereignty.
And from this place, calling in your beloved becomes inevitable.
How I Work: The Bond That Heals
Here’s what makes my coaching different:
Most coaches give you strategies and send you on your way.
I create something far more powerful: A deeply loving, trusting therapeutic bond that becomes the foundation for all your healing.
For many of my clients, this is the first truly healthy, unconditionally loving relationship they’ve ever experienced.
And that changes everything.
Because you can’t attract what you’ve never known. You can’t create healthy love when you’ve never felt it in your body.
But once you experience it—once your nervous system learns what safe, attuned, loving connection feels like—you can recognize it. Expect it. And refuse to accept anything less.
This bond we create together becomes your blueprint for healthy relationship.
It rewires your attachment patterns. It heals decades of relational wounds. It shows you that you are worthy of being fully seen, deeply loved, and completely accepted.
From this foundation, everything else becomes possible.
What We’ll Work On
The Journey: From Codependency to Conscious Love
Together, we’ll guide you from where you are to where you’re meant to be:
Heal Your Attachment Style
Whether you’re anxious, avoidant, or disorganized in your attachment, we’ll work at the root level to heal the childhood wounds that created these patterns. You’ll learn to create secure attachment—first with yourself, then with your beloved.
Release Codependency Patterns
Stop abandoning yourself for others. Stop making yourself small to keep the peace. Stop waiting for someone else to make you whole. We’ll transform codependency into sacred interdependence.
Reclaim Your Sovereignty
Learn to make self-honoring choices without guilt. Set boundaries with love. Trust your intuition completely. Stand in your power without apology. Own your authentic self fully.
Partner with the Divine
Develop an unshakeable connection with the Divine that guides your dating life, your decisions, and your path. Learn to trust that something bigger has your back—always.
Call In Your Soulmate
From this healed, sovereign place, you’ll naturally magnetize a partner who is emotionally available, deeply committed, and ready to build conscious, lasting love with you.
Transform All Your Relationships
The healing we do together ripples out into every relationship in your life—with family, friends, colleagues, and most importantly, yourself.
The Experience
What Private Coaching Looks Like
This is not a quick fix. This is sacred, depth work.
When you work with me privately, you receive:
🌟 Deep, Personalized Guidance Every session is tailored specifically to you—your patterns, your wounds, your story, your soul’s journey. No generic advice. No one-size-fits-all formulas.
🌟 Unlimited Access Between Sessions Message me anytime you need support. I respond personally (typically within 24 hours). You’re never alone in this journey.
🌟 The Therapeutic Bond We create a deeply loving, trusting relationship that becomes your template for healthy connection. This bond itself is the healing.
🌟 Somatic & Spiritual Integration We work with your mind, body, and spirit. This isn’t just cognitive understanding—it’s full-system transformation that creates lasting change at a cellular level.
🌟 Customized Tools & Practices You’ll receive personalized exercises, meditations, and practices designed specifically for your healing journey.
🌟 Accountability with Compassion I’ll hold you to your highest self while loving you exactly where you are. Growth happens in this beautiful tension.
Who This Is For
Is Private Coaching Right for You?
This depth of work IS for women who:
✓ Are done with surface-level solutions and ready for root transformation
✓ Want to heal attachment wounds and codependency patterns permanently
✓ Are willing to be vulnerable and do the deep inner work
✓ Desire a truly intimate, transformational coaching relationship
✓ Are committed to their growth and willing to invest significantly in themselves
✓ Want personalized guidance, not generic group programs
✓ Are ready to step into their sovereignty and call in their Soulmate
✓ Understand that real transformation takes time and sacred space
This is NOT for women who:
✗ Want quick fixes or dating tactics
✗ Aren’t ready to look at their patterns honestly
✗ Expect the coach to “fix” them without their active participation
✗ Are looking for the cheapest option
✗ Want to stay comfortable and avoid growth edges
✗ Aren’t willing to trust the process
How to Begin
Step 1: Schedule Your Introductory Call with Me
Here you’ll share your story, your patterns, what you’ve tried, and what you’re seeking.
Step 2: Private Coaching Discovery Call
If I feel I can truly serve you, we’ll schedule a complimentary 90-minute consultation where we’ll:
- Explore your specific situation and patterns
- Dive into transformative coaching (rather that talk about coaching, you’ll get to experience my coaching)
- Determine if we’re energetically aligned
- Review package options and investment (only if we are both a fully-body “Yes”)
Step 3: Begin Your Transformation
If we both feel it’s a yes, we’ll begin our sacred work together.
“Whenever I was in a relationship in the past, I felt sadness and despair…I felt this longing for something that I knew existed but it wasn’t yet here. I wanted someone help me believe again, and to trust. I felt soooo much more peace now after working with Vickie. And…I’m with my person now! His name is Tom, and we met four weeks before quarantine. It’s been nothing short of a miracle.”
– Rachelle Tratt, Venice, California
About Me
- Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology
- 25+ years guiding relationship transformations
- Author of Buddha Never Raised Kids & Jesus Didn’t Drive Carpool: Seven Principles for Parenting With Soul
- Coached 1:1 by Dr. Gay Hendricks in conscious relationship work
- Specialized expertise in attachment theory, codependency healing, and spiritual partnership
My Journey:
After my divorce at 44, I spent years attracting emotionally unavailable men, abandoning myself in relationships, and wondering what was wrong with me.
Through deep healing work—addressing my attachment wounds, releasing codependency, learning to partner with the Divine—everything changed.
At 48, I called in my Soulmate. We’ve been married for 9 years, together for 15.
But more importantly, I found myself. My sovereignty. My unshakeable worth.
Now, this is my life’s work: guiding women home to themselves so they can call in the love they deserve.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long do people typically work with you?
Most private clients work with me for 6-12 months for deep transformation. Some continue longer for integration and ongoing support. Many for 4+ years. We’ll determine the right timeline during your consultation.
Do you offer payment plans?
Yes, payment plans are available for all packages to make this sacred investment accessible.
I live outside the US. Can we work together?
Absolutely. All sessions are conducted via Zoom, and I work with clients globally.
How is this different from your group course?
The group course is powerful for breaking patterns and learning foundational tools. Private coaching is for women who need deeper healing, want a more intimate therapeutic bond, require personalized attention, or have complex patterns that need specialized care.
What if I’m not sure I can afford this?
I understand this is a significant investment. During our consultation, we’ll discuss package options and payment plans. But I also invite you to consider: What is staying stuck costing you? What would your life look like if you healed this permanently?
Do you guarantee I’ll find my Soulmate?
I can’t guarantee when love will arrive—that’s between you and the Divine. But I can guarantee that if you do the work, you WILL transform. You’ll heal your patterns, step into your sovereignty, and become the woman who naturally magnetizes healthy love. From there, your beloved finds you.
How do I know if we’re the right fit?
Trust your gut. If something in you is saying “yes, this is it,” that’s your soul speaking. The consultation call will confirm whether we’re energetically aligned for this work.
What makes your coaching worth this investment?
The depth of transformation, the intimacy of our bond, the permanent nature of the healing, and the fact that this work ripples through your entire life—not just your love life. This isn’t a cost. It’s an investment in becoming who you’re meant to be.
The Woman You’re Meant to Become is Waiting
She’s sovereign. She’s authentic. She’s deeply loved—by herself and by her beloved.
She’s you.
Let me help you find her.
